The Life of MAMA Martha Njillor
“Every day is a gift,” a profound sentiment that Mami Njillor embraced throughout her nearly century long life. Born on June 30, 1930, in Bayangam, Martha Rita Njillor radiated warmth and kindness until her peaceful passing on October 26, 2024, at the age of 94. Her legacy of love, strength, and compassion will forever illuminate the hearts of those who were fortunate enough to know her.
Mami Martha was the eldest of six siblings: Ntopi, Patricia, Mary, Christina, and Anna. She was raised by her loving parents, the late Papa Joseph Tamangwa, a dedicated farmer, and the late Mami Josepha Tamangwa, a nurturing housewife. From an early age, she learned the values of hard work and compassion, becoming a guiding light for her siblings. As the firstborn, she embraced the responsibilities that came with her role, setting an inspiring example of strength and resilience that would shape her remarkable life. Her parents also instilled in her, the values of education, shaping her into the remarkable woman she would become. She attended the Government Primary School in Small Soppo, Buea where she earned her First School Leaving Certificate. Her journey then took her to Nigeria, where she completed her secondary education in Ikot Ekwe, Calabar.
Tribute
Kum (Mbah-Mbi) - ( Grand child)
my grandma meant everything to me. she was a woman whose love for me was truely unconditional. she fought for me in every sense, always advocating for my happiness and well-being. her gentle spirit spoiled me in the best ways, showering me with affection and kindness. grandma taught me the importance of being selfless and humble, instilling values that will guide me through out life. she protected me fiercely, accommodating my picky tendencies with delicious meals, ensuring i never went hungry. her unwavering support meant the world to me. she never gave up on me even when times were tough. she was my unwaving champion, always believing in me no matter what i pursued. whether it was sports, gaming, or anything else she sparked my passion. she would rally older boys to include me in thier teams, pushing me forward when i felt small. anyone who dared to raise their voices at me faced her wrath even when i was wrong. in her presence, i felt invincible, wrapped in an abundance of love and unwaving support. Now, my heart aches with a profound loss, yet theres peace in within me as if her spirit still holds me close, guiding me through pain. i know i will never find anyone like her again. Her love and wisdom will forever remain in my heart. i love you grandma and i will cherish your memory always.
Nnam Marion-(grand child)
my grand motherwas truely an extra ordinary woman, embodying humility and selflessness in every aspect of her life. she taught me that humility is the gateway to heaven and instilled in me the importance of my responsibilities as her oldest granddaughter- a role i hold close to my heart and i am determined to honor. she nurtured me in every way, teaching me essential life skills like sewing, cooking and cleaning ensuring i knew how to take care of my self as a woman. even during my pregnancy, she was mu unwavering support, sharing her widom and love until i felt ready to embrace motherhood. the nuturing she gave me was a beautiful continuation of the love she poured into raising my brother and i . the education she provided at home was richer than anything i ever learned in school. her ability to forgive and her commitment to treating everyone equally made her a beacon of light in our family and community. she was a mother not only to me but to many, and her lessons have shaped me into the person i am today, enabling me to care for my own children and others who need love and support. though we are separated by distance, her ansence is a profound ache in my heart. there is a void that can never be filled, buy i find comfort in knowing i have an angel watching over me, guiding me through every challenge, i will carry her memory and teachings with me always, cherishing the incredible legacy she has left behind. i love you grandma, and i will forever be grateful for the love and wisdom you shared with me .
